5 Tips to Seduce a Libra ManBy |
Libra guys are very superficial. The phrase ‘what you see is what you get’ often applies to a Libra man – they are not very deep and they have no hidden corners.
There are no internal deep conflicts that you might be aware, unlike the case of most Cancer and Gemini signs.
With that said, if you want to attract a Libra man and seduce him to do what you want him to do, you have to first get over to the number one barrier most Libras face.
What is this issue?
They have a tough time committing.
Libra male personality types face a serious problem called analysis paralysis – they are always weighing things and situations up. They feel that they are being rational and responsible, and they feel that they are being smart when they do this.
What they do not realise is that they are eating too much of their time going around in circles.
The reality is you can only analyse things for so long until you reach a point where you’re not getting any more answers, you’re just spinning your wheels and you’re stuck in one place.
This is the main issue with Libra people and Libra men in general.
Many of them are really stuck at one level or the other. While in appearances, they seem like they have it all together, they might seem that they are rich, successful but unhappy – but at some level or another, they are stuck.
Many Libra men eventually mature and from being stuck and they achieve a point where they reach equilibrium – this is a point where points are equal and balanced; this is the highest point of the Libra man.
You need to know all these things if you’re trying to seduce a Libra man. Defining seduction is not just in terms of romantic terms or even sexual terms; I’m talking about getting the Libra man to do what you want him to do.
Let’s face it, sales, advertising and marketing – they are forms of seduction. Seduction really is a form of persuasion where you disguise your will to work it in such a way that it produces action on the part of another person and they feel that action is a product of their own will – that is the essence of seduction.
Here are my top five tips for seducing a Libra man –
To Attract a Libra Man You Must Look Good
Libra guys are very superficial – they know this, they’re not ashamed of it and why should they be ashamed of it?
I mean, after all, Libra guys pay value conventionality a lot. In terms of conventional values, looking great is a positive value. Most people don’t like people who look bad. Most people react somewhat negatively to people who don’t look like they have it all together.
So if you want to catch the eye of the Libra man so you can seduce him, you first have to go to the first stage which is to look good.
This means, of course, to have the right hair, clean skin, be trimmed and slim and wear clothes that compliment your personality. Looking good doesn’t necessarily mean fitting a specific stereotypical pattern.
Looking good often means bringing out the very best of your personality and highlighting it. One way to define looking good is to not have any outward conflicts.
For example, if you are trying to project confidence and you wear very shabby clothes, it’s not going to work out. This can cause real problems for compatibility between Libra and Taurus signs in 2014.
Why? Your external appearance conflicts with the aura you are trying to project. Once you take out any type of external contradictions in terms of the signals you send out, you are doing well, you are looking good.
Keep it Light to Attract Libra’s Attention
Any deep talk or heavy philosophical or emotional talk can scare a Libra guy.
Why? Libra guys, at least at the very beginning are very afraid of commitment. They don’t like being sucked into a certain situation where they have to commit.
They never want to have to sacrifice or they have to sign on the dotted line – they don’t want that. This is a key trait of the Libra personality.
They want things light, they like this easy, they like things casual. If you want to seduce a Libra guy, keep things light and formal. Focus instead on the clothes he’s wearing., focus on his choice of things.
The secret to seducing a Libra man at least from a superficial perspective is actually quite simple: Focus on him.
Libra men have no problems talking, so all you need to do is to talk to them to be able to seduce them.
Why? They fail to do what you’re doing because they love talking about themselves. They’re not insecure like other signs of the horoscope, they just like predictability. This is one of the major negative traits of the Libra.
They’d like to go on autopilot and this is their big flaw when it comes to seduction. If you know these tips, seducing a Libra man is actually pretty easy.
Make it Easy for a Libra Man to Fall in Love With You
One of the surest ways to make the Libra guy hit the exit is to give it up too quickly, that’s right.
By becoming too sexual too early, you basically fail to seduce the Libra man.
Why? You already gave him what he wants and Lira men often equate easy sex with easy exits.
If you don’t want to get hurt and feel used, don’t give it up too easily. There’s a big difference between seduction and sex. A lot of women nowadays seem to be clueless about this.
There’s a big difference between sexuality, sensuality and being sexy. Know the difference. If you want to seduce a Libra man, be sexy, don’t be sensual but definitely don’t be sexual.
What’s the big difference? Sexy is not a just about how you look. You know that there’s a big component of that – you know how to carry yourself. At the end of the day, being sexy is all about being in control and being confident – guys like that.
Deep down, they like a woman who looks like and acts that she has it all together.
Why? They feel that they can use some of that power because at some level, they feel that they are not in control. So a woman who is sexy can play with a man with her fingers and guys tend to gravitate towards this.
Libra men are no exceptions.
Being sensual on the other hand, is being able to use your feminine sexuality in a very physical but not so physical way. In other word, your motions are sent away by your physical features. This definitely helps seduction, but you cannot overdo it.
Sex, on the other hand is what it is – you’ve given up the store. So the key to seducing a Libra man and getting him to do what you want him to do is to focus on being sexy and confident and maybe a little bit of sensuality, but never sexuality.
Why? Once you give it up, he’s gone. Nine times out of ten he’s gone, and nine times out of ten, he’s going to use you.
Seduction is all about you being in control, seduction is all about reaching a point of partnership. But at first, it’s all about being in control.
You lose your control once you give it up. Once you give it up, he will be in control and that is anybody’s ball game.
Libra is probably not insecure because they know that they got stuck in this process. It’s no surprise that Libra men and women in general can be lazy.
They are lazy in the sense that they don’t physically want to do things and there’s like a physical addiction to not doing things – that has nothing to do with that at all. It’s more of a mental thing.
They can’t commit so they can’t even try and they just get stuck in a mental level. As a splitter, they begin to feel being cheated, but seriously, they cheated themselves.
You need to know this is if you are trying to seduce a Libra man, because he needs to feel like a winner. He needs to feel that what he is doing on his constant way is actually worth something. By encouraging him, but at the same time keeping him checked, you can use this to your advantage.
You have to remember, Libra guys are not stupid. They know that it is this internal deliberations that go on forever that really hold them back.
They know this. They are aware of it and many of them are sick of it. However, there are emotions that they want to be reassured that what they are doing is okay. If you tell them that what they’re doing is okay and you put limits on it, they instantly see you as somebody they can trust. That is the key to seduction.
Once you get them to feel that they trust you then you are basically one.
Seduce Libra with Your Heart
Libra men have a compassionate side. Libra guys have a side that will give you the benefit of a doubt. If you show compassion, if you show vulnerability and show some form of deep personal weakness that they can identify with or relate to, they can let you into their hearts.
As long as you are not lying, this is a great way to seduce a Libra man. However, if you are going to deceive the person and come up with stories just to seduce the guy, I don’t recommend it.
Unless you want to destroy the person, stick to what’s true and stick to what’s real.
Why? As hard as it is for the Libra guy to commit, if you speak to him through your heart, you make the commitment process much easier.
Once he commits, you want him to base his commitment on something real and solid, right?