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How to Make a Gemini Man Fall in Love with You

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how to make a gemini man fall in loveWondering how to make a Gemini man fall in love? Do you want to seduce a Gemini man?

If you answered yes to these questions I have a special treat for you today. In this special guide I am going to reveal the exact steps you need to take and the things you must do to make a Gemini man fall in love.

The first thing you need to understand about seducing a Gemini man is that the Gemini personality of both men and women have a lot of common features.


First and foremost, they are both very fun-loving. Second, they tend to be open-minded and very experimental. When it comes to being open-minded about relationships, emotional arrangements and sex, few other astrological signs come close to the Gemini man.

Gemini men are fun to be around. They are great when it comes to brainstorming and bouncing off ideas. However, if you are woman who wants a Gemini man to fall in love with you, you have to focus on the specific male Gemini traits that will be facing.


If you have unclear ideas regarding these traits, you might be in for a rude shock. Your relationship might reach a point where you might think that this person is ready to commit but he actually wants anything but commitment.

That’s how quickly a Gemini man can turn when it comes to romance and love. Although Gemini women can also turn, they have a different process. Gemini guys can turn on you if you’re not paying attention. Keep the following discussion in mind if you want to make a Gemini man fall in love with you.


Making a Gemini Man Fall in Love is Hard Work

When it comes to emotional relationships, Gemini men are quite different compared to other horoscope signs. They truly are. They can be very surprising and spontaneous as well as dangerous.

This is precisely what makes them so sexy and appealing to many people. They are never boring. It’s very easy fall for a Gemini man because he is such a good emotional ally to you.

He will give you a nice and warm emotional place where you can hang out and really open your heart.

The problem is that this safe place that he sets up for you can disappear overnight. That is the risk you run with getting into a relationship with a Gemini man. They can turn on you like day and night.

It almost feels as if you’re talking to a completely different person. The good news is that they are not schizophrenic, bipolar or crazy!

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That’s just the way their personalities are crafted. You have to remember that this sign is based on twins. They may look the same but they are actually two different people. Being in a relationship with them, you might think that you know them really well in terms of their emotional range.

Unfortunately, you’re in for a surprise. It only takes a certain trigger or a combination of it for you to see a different side of your Gemini partner. As mentioned previously, this doesn’t need to be a negative thing. However, if you want to make a Gemini man fall in love with you, you must know his triggers.

Understanding the Gemini Man in Love

There is one word that gets to the bottom of understanding the Gemini male mind. That word is “trigger”. You have to know certain triggers that make a Gemini turn direction.

This doesn’t necessarily mean to control the person. We are not talking about manipulation here. We are talking about awareness of how Gemini men tend think when it comes to love and romance. They can be very liberal when it comes to their emotions and minds. They can let the situation carry them. If you really care about a Gemini man, you have to guard this revelation carefully. This is particularly true when it comes to Gemini and Cancer relationships.

By using certain triggers you can help make that person respond predictably and you can use this to almost “force” them to fall in love. In my experience a lot of Gemini relationships fall apart because women who are trying to seduce a Gemini man get this totally wrong.

The last thing you want your Gemini male partner to thing is that you are manipulating him. Still, these triggers are quite predictable. More importantly, the reactions to those triggers can be predicted so you should use this information with care.

My Biggest Tip To Seducing a Gemini Man

Sure, you may know how Gemini guys go along with certain triggers. However, one of the most important things to keeping a Gemini man excited about you to the point that he may fall in love with you is to mix things up.

That’s right. Throw in a lot of spontaneity in your relationship. Don’t be boring by having the same personality day in and day out. Try to entertain the wild side of your personality. Doing this will make Gemini man see that you have certain parts to your personality that fit his irrational and erratic side. Virgo women and Gemini men understand this well and often make the most of the fun side of their relationships.

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They love this. Hence, the more you mix it up, the more likely it is that the Gemini man will fall in love with you. However, don’t overdo it. You might come off as crazy or unreliable. It may seem very hard to do since many Gemini men are criticized for being unreliable but they might think that you are the flake. That’s bad news.

Breaking a Gemini Guy Out of a Rut Can Trigger Love

There is one thing that Gemini guys hate. They hate being stuck in a rut.

If you find your Gemini partner stuck in a rut at work, school or in your relationship, help him break out of it. He will be excited about you and appreciate you.

He will see you in a different light. In fact, it might be so profound to him that it might trigger love. Of course, you are already in a relationship. Therefore, a certain level attraction already exists. We are talking about a deep and meaningful love.

Living With Unstable Gemini Triggers

As much as you would like to have a Gemini man fall in love with you, remember that you are dealing with his triggers. This is the 800-pound gorilla in the room.

These sets of triggers can be quite unpredictable. The only thing that you would know about your partner is that there are certain triggers that will set him off.

However, you don’t exactly know what these triggers are and what kind of timing they need. Nevertheless, they will have an effect on him.

You can use this to your advantage to get the Gemini man to fall in love with you. However, you don’t want to trigger that part of him which rebels against manipulation.

So if you want to play his triggers properly, make it appear that he is the one responding to triggers instead of you directing him.

The Power of Shared Experiences

As mentioned above, Gemini guys like it when their partners mix it up. They hate monotony. They don’t like a boring routine. Unfortunately, many Gemini guys find it hard to commit to one woman because of the routine of commitment.

It involves sticking through the odds with one person. It means putting your partner as a priority. This scares many Gemini guys. Sure, many of them love the idea of commitment. However, the reality of it scares them.

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Make it a little bit fun for them. Mix things up, dress up, take him to very interesting places, change the restaurants you eat at, or prepare different foods.

Spicing things up can make the idea of commitment less intimidating to your Gemini male partner.

Become His Friend First

One of the most important of people in a Gemini’s life is his friend. A friend provides safe emotional places where they can Weather out the storms of certain triggers that can set them off. This is why it’s very important for you to deepen your friendship first with your Gemini man. This is a key step in him falling in love with you.  It is especially true when it comes to long term relationships and Gemini marriage compatibility.

Provide him welcome relief from the things he fears such as boredom and monotony. Mixing things up and providing challenges for him can make him see you in a different light. This might provide a certain trigger that can take him to the next stage which is the stage of “love”.

Make It Clear That You Are Dependable

As described above, Gemini men can be flaky. That is a description that people throughout the ages have tended to describe Gemini people. This should not be a surprise. You might think you know this person until all of a sudden, he turns out to be completely different person. Talk about unreliable, erratic and unstable. Ironically enough, Gemini people want dependable partners.

If you want a Gemini man to fall in love with you, stick it through with him through several situations where his sets of triggers go off. It can be an emotionally-turbulent situation but it can also be a lot of fun.

Still, be visible in his life. If he sees that you are dependable while other potential female partners fall out of the way, watch out.

Your Gemini man might fall head over heels in love with you. While you might want this to happen, this might open a whole can of worms. Making a Gemini man fall in love with you is actually quite easy. What isn’t easy is what happens next.

Make sure that you understand the tips above. Most importantly, make sure to guard and utilize this information carefully. You wouldn’t want to put yourself in an emotionally explosive situation with a Gemini man who fell in love with you but felt tricked.

Check out my video too for one final secret tip that works like a charm 🙂


  1. Imelda Green

    November 28, 2014 at 8:11 pm

    Who here knows a Gemini man? x

    • Perplexed Venus

      December 10, 2014 at 11:13 am

      Do you see my moniker? This Pisces is forever scratching her head.

    • Mikalia Martin

      January 1, 2015 at 1:39 pm

      I do. Things are still fresh but we just seem to clique. I hear about all the odds etc. But I do like this guy. I’m September 21st and he’s may 21st, can you give me a little info. Would be highly appreciated! Love your work!

      • Imelda Green

        January 2, 2015 at 11:13 pm

        Thanks Mikalia, email me : and I will get you a discounted email reading organised xx

    • Perplexed Venus

      February 9, 2015 at 3:01 am

      I found that he does not really know himself (54 years). He senses (never feels) that he is in a sad and misunderstood station on this third rock. He truly is sad, lonely, neurotic and his own worst enemy. He doesn’t want to hide away in his basement. He hungers for love and affection. Yet, will not allow anyone in and rarely comes out. He suffers anxiety when faced with the idea that he may find himself in a situation where he may be vulnerable around a female, me anyways.
      He creates long, confusing speeches meant to express his sentiment. When all it does is make murky what had been clear. I was aware of his twin personality going in. I was able to discern what was happening and just rolled with him being full of excitement over something one moment then indifferent the next. In only three months, it became so I could not make head or tails of anything. He was stingingly critical about everything I said or did. I should just leave him alone. How could I hang up. Adamant on each position. I am mutable. I just didnt bend in the right (correct) ways for him. I will always have a special place in my heart for him. I do wish the “Gorgeous” Gem all the best.

      • Imelda Green

        February 9, 2015 at 7:41 pm

        Sounds like you are dealing with a lot when it comes to your Gemini man Venus. If you are interested I can organise an email reading for you at a special discount. Email me at – xx

      • Imelda Green

        March 21, 2015 at 7:10 pm

        Sounds like a variation on the Gemini male’s typical personality to me. Does this report offer you some guidance? xx

    • Regina L. Llambías Limés

      June 16, 2015 at 7:06 pm

      I do! I’m a virgo woman, and not understanding this personality changes he has makes me crazy. But as you said, the only way to get them is by being friends first…at least it worked for me, he confessed he wanted to be with me and so we did. Every year since 2012 we see each other more than 10 times per year (he lives in another city). It’s so damn true that they get bored easily, he changed his career about 5 times, but I’m always there supporting, because after all, that’s what he seeks for.

  2. Terri Wilson Burke

    January 3, 2015 at 1:11 am

    Mine found me after 25 years! He says I’m the one that got away…he thinks we are specifically designed for one another…

  3. niqui slaughter

    February 3, 2015 at 7:22 pm

    i know a Gemini man and a Gemini woman. I love them both. I would do anything for the both of them. I’m an Aries(4/15) and I have fallen in love with a Gemini man. SMH. I can’t tell if he feels the same way about me…smh…

  4. Nathan

    March 6, 2015 at 3:52 pm

    Hey i really like this site I kinda like the astrology thing it seems strangely accurate.. I’m a Gemini guy and really like this sagittarius girl..she’s on the other side of the world but we chat all the time..but I want to know if I’m wasting my energy or if she’s worth the pursuit..obviously this is a public thing so looking for a more 1 on 1 advice do I go about that? X

    • Imelda Green

      April 8, 2015 at 7:40 pm

      Hi Nathan,

      Thanks for the great feedback and for reaching out. You can get a personal email reading with me and I will hook you up with a good discount.

      Just email me –

  5. Nathan

    March 6, 2015 at 4:24 pm

    P.s I’m on this page to try and find out why I like her not because I’m trying to attract a Gemini guy lol! Just a lil FYI!

  6. salena

    March 19, 2015 at 3:24 pm

    I know one and I’ve been his friend for 2 years. Three months ago we decided to start dating. Before, he was almost like my best friend. He always wanted me, and now that he can have me, it’s like he doesn’t want me anymore. I talked to him about it until I’m blue in the face, and he just gets angry. Nothing changes. I get little attention, and no affection unless it is sexual. I’m unhappy, and he doesn’t listen. It feels as if he didn’t even care anymore. Now he’s ignoring me. Maybe I should just move on?

    • Imelda Green

      May 27, 2015 at 10:18 pm

      sounds like it is time to move on Salena xx

  7. lolkay

    May 12, 2015 at 9:13 pm

    hey! its been almost three years now and my gemini still doesnt want to commit to me or admit that he has feelings towards me,, ive stuck by his side all this time, i mean i know his whole family! And his mom loves me very much, but hes still sending me mixed signals ): helpp!! – libra

    • LibraLady

      May 13, 2015 at 9:46 pm

      I am a libra woman who has been in a relationship with a gemini man for almost six years. He compartmentalizes his life and refuses to commit, but also says that he doesn’t want anyone but me. I am okay with not getting married, but I would like a higher level of commitment than just an I love you. He is 49 and it is like he has still not grown up and wants to land everywhere. So true about can’t go from point A to point B without making twelve stops in between. We have been through many ups and downs, the worst was last year when I found out he was cheating on me with an ex-girlfriend. After some time apart (instigated by me), we both decided that we only want to be with each other and are trying to be totally honest. It has been very difficult for him to be an open book, but he has jumped through every hoop I have asked of him. The honesty and discussion, while not always deep, has made our relationship grow in a deeper way. Does that mean he’s the one? I have no idea, I am trying to take it a day at a time. I do know that I have never loved or been loved this way before. We have fun, he is smart, loving, kind (most of the time),and challenges me to learn more about who he is and who I am. He claims that he has never felt this kind of love and acceptance from anyone. He says that I feel comfortable, but never boring, to him. And that never has he had such attraction/draw to another person. However, I don’t know that it is possible for a Gemini to be faithful, even if they love you, they are not long-term thinkers, and often act only on what feels good to them at that moment.I believe he is consistently torn between stability and freedom which he sees as incompatible, I do not. Sometimes I wish I would’ve walked away after three years, but I couldn’t. If YOU can, you should.

      • jimmy

        May 15, 2015 at 8:51 pm

        hmm not saying all gems have the same mindset but I will say us Gems truely desire is to be completed by another person. But we think we know it all so if you cant teach him something and be completely honest I will probably never work. We will tap I into your mind and know what your thinking so don’t use your libra tounge to just tell what you think he wants to hear be honest even if it pains him. he will mimic that and you will definitely have a commited partner. Do not ever pressure him let him make the choice for himself that way he knows it was in his favor and he choose you for a reason. Don’t change even for him we are the lovers but the opposite of love is hate, she was right when she said above that we don’t feel enough so true.. We are thinkers, deep thinkers more than people know that’s what keeps us at a distance its a constant battle of us over thinking because we know people in an instant (atleast I do) and we are always searching for the truth and if we find fault its hard for us to get past that and we don’t let people in because they are liars and we know it but our others twin blocks it out and tells us its not true. but deep down he will look at you differently . Give him space to let him think he is single he will be faithful if hes a good guy!!

  8. sunny lilly

    May 16, 2015 at 10:24 pm

    I just met one he is 33 and im 43 im a leo woman and he is adorable..i kind of want to have fun with him for now …in a great way.

    • Imelda Green

      May 27, 2015 at 10:17 pm

      so glad to hear that Sunny xx

  9. Toya1028

    June 21, 2015 at 12:33 am

    I am scorpio that continues to attract gemini males. I dated one for 5 years that fell in love and wanted to marry me, etc. I just couldn’t get past the mood swings. Dating and sex was great but I just couldn’t be around him everyday. I’ve since pulled away from him.
    Over a year ago I meet another Gemini and this man is whimsical. Often time he attentive and then he goes off into a mystery land. The part that confuses me I when he mentally returns he acts as if he never left. It’s a Rollercoaster. Intimately we are compatible. I just have no idea where I’m going with this man. I like him but as a scorpio I need consistency. So confused.

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