Gemini and Virgo CompatibilityBy |
Gemini and Virgo compatibility on paper looks like a perfect match up. Why? They both like emotional authenticity. Nothing turns on the Virgo more than a Gemini that is really in touch with themselves.
Virgo likes to look at the world in terms of black and white. Virgo is all about perfection and ideals. Gemini on the other hand is all about exploration, about spontaneity and fun.
On paper, this looks like a match made in heaven that should make for amazing compatibility between the Gemini and Virgo.
However, looking beneath the surface, there may be trouble ahead. Keep reading.
Gemini and Virgo Friendship Compatibility
Virgo is one of the most introverted signs of the horoscope. Virgo is all about emotional authenticity. This is precisely why Virgo would find Gemini a great friend.
Gemini signs are very open-minded. They tend to feel out in the open. They tend to think with their feelings. They are touchy-feely. This is the main reason that I believe that Gemini will find love. They are very open to all sorts of possibilities and in the Virgo’s eyes this level of openness is the peak of emotional authenticity. This is a key strength of the friendship compatibility between the Virgo and Gemini signs.
However the problem is that being open-minded doesn’t necessarily mean being emotionally authentic.
Emotional authenticity is all about honesty. Gemini may be pushed to be broadminded, but due to different reasons. It’s very easy for the Virgo to imagine things in their friendship with Gemini that are not there.
It’s easy for the Virgo to put motivations behind people’s actions and personalities that don’t exist. Sadly, Virgo feels let down and betrayed when these turned out not to be true. Gemini on the other hand is left scratching his or her head and asking what happened to his or her friendship with a Virgo when Gemini was just being honest. See the problem?
Virgo can be quite a handful when it comes to Gemini and Virgo friendship compatibility and both signs should tread carefully to maintain a positive relationship.
Gemini and Virgo Marriage Compatibility
Just like with any horoscope signs, if two people with different signs get together and they are mature, they can get along well. It doesn’t really matter which signs match up as long as they have fully developed personalities according to their horoscope signs. If this is the case for Gemini and Virgo then there are no reasons that they cannot get along quite well and be considered to have good compatibility for marriage.
The problem is when you have an unpolished Gemini with an immature Virgo getting married. It’s always a bad idea for immature people to marry. You shouldn’t marry when you’re emotionally immature. You shouldn’t marry when you are mentally immature. It doesn’t make any sense.
You are just buying into a lot of problems.
Does it mean that your marriage will necessarily fail? Absolutely not. You can still mature in your relationship. However, it will take a little bit longer, just like the compatibility between Gemini and Aries.
It will also be a little bit harder on both of your nerves. Don’t get me wrong, Gemini and Virgo can become very good marriage partners. Why? Virgo can be very supportive of Gemini’s open-minded and touchy-feely personality and Gemini can be very emotionally supportive of the Virgo.
This really can be a marriage made in heaven.
However, when the undeveloped sides of these astrological signs get together in a marriage, it can be a serious headache. Gemini can be too unreliable and fickle. Virgo can be too rigid. It can end up with both partners pointing at each other and saying that they stab each other in the back. Flexibility and communication are the keys to good marriage compatibility between Gemini and Virgo.
Problems with Gemini and Virgo Compatibility
Virgo is very easy to figure out when it comes to compatibility. You just have to feed Virgo the picture of the world that Virgo secretly or publicly subscribes to. That’s it, that’s the secret to Virgo. Virgos are all about ideals. They are all about looking at the world the way it should be instead of the way the world is.
Gemini can play this game really well because Gemini tends to change. They can be chameleons. The problem is when you have a Gemini that is beginning to mature and has a tough time trying to be a chameleon and having two faces, explosions can occur between Gemini and Virgo matches. Why?
Virgo’s idealistic view of the world blows up into a million tiny pieces because Gemini lays it down the line. Gemini just gives their Virgo a friend or partner a reality check that the Virgo could not recover from.
That is the ultimate compatibility problem between Gemini and Virgo. It doesn’t matter whether they’re friends, sexual partners, business partners or in love. This is one of the biggest issues that Virgo and Gemini can have.
Gemini Zodiac Sign and Virgo Compatibility
Gemini compatibility with Virgo is all about whose vision of the world would rule, whose vision would govern the relationship.
The problem is, this is the conventional way of defining certain relationships. You cannot do this with Gemini zodiac sign and a Virgo relationship. The better approach would be to look at different aspects of their personalities that can complement each other.
If one of them has a clue and is mature enough and sees this, then the relationship can survive. Gemini and Virgo can get along quite well. However, if Virgo is very rigid and Gemini doesn’t see this, it can spell all sorts of problems. Virgo can be quite stubborn. Gemini on the other hand can be quite treacherous, hurtful and mean. Not a good combination and certainly not a good mix for compatibility between Gemini and Virgo.
Instead of both friends pulling each other up, they end up undermining each other and dragging each other down. It’s not uncommon to hang up on the phone after two hours talking with a Virgo friend and feel completely drained.
Virgo Perfection versus Gemini Realism
As mentioned above, it’s very easy for a Gemini to make Virgo’s life hell. How? Just give them a reality check. The reality check is the antidote to Virgo inflexibility.
Unfortunately, if you love the Virgo in your life and you respect them, you don’t give them a reality check in one massive serving.
You can do it, but you could say goodbye to that relationship. You could say goodbye to that Virgo lover or friend. If you want to help your Virgo friend to grow up a little bit, then you have to give them little doses of reality.
Gemini on the other hand can be very fickle and unpredictable, especially when it comes to Gemini men in love. They can be very supportive one moment and all of a sudden they get triggered to just being mean and over bearing. This is precisely the problem with Virgo and Gemini.
Gemini can suddenly snap and just tell the Virgo partner ‘how it is’ Virgo, being a typical Virgo can’t handle it and lets go of the friendship or love relationship.
Don’t Confuse Gemini Doubts with Betrayal
Virgos like to paint the world in terms of black and white. You either my friend or you’re my enemy. You either right or you’re wrong. The problem is the world isn’t black and white.
They are lots of grays. In fact, there’s millions of colors in the world. This is what makes life fun. This is what makes being imperfect challenging and enjoyable. That’s what we are, we are human beings. We are imperfect.
Unfortunately, Virgo doesn’t want to live in that world. They like to live in a world where it’s safe, where there are certain spots for people and you know the Virgo likes to mentally move people around in this chessboard in his or her mind because it makes them feel safe.
Unfortunately, Virgos can sometimes feel that Gemini’s are traitors.
They think that when a Gemini friend doubts certain things, to a Virgo that says all of a sudden the Gemini is betraying them. Nothing could be further from the truth.
The reality is one of the great things about Gemini is that you can look at different things at many different angles. This makes Gemini’s great lawyers. This makes Gemini’s great business people. Unfortunately, this is not so good when it comes to Virgo and Gemini compatibility.
You have to feed Virgo a certain line or a certain angle or else they might think that you’re betraying them. They might think that you are purposely trying to undermine them. As a result especially in a work setting, Gemini doubts are often confused and misinterpreted by Virgo as undermining and backstabbing.
Gemini and Virgo can become good friends, can become great lovers and can become great partners in marriage too. With that said, it all depends on the level of maturity of these partners. There are great things about Gemini personality. There are amazing things about Virgo personality.
However, if you get two people with really undeveloped or immature aspects of their personalities and these aspects clash against each other, they can be quite an explosive situation and does not really make for good compatibility between Gemini and Virgo in general.