Gemini and Scorpio CompatibilityBy |
The compatibility match between Gemini and Scorpio is often an issue for great debate. Some people believe that Gemini and Scorpio compatibility is simply impossible. They believe that these two signs are too different to ever be compatible in friendship or in love.
In this special report I reveal my expert opinion on the match between Gemini and Scorpio. I will also dispel some of the biggest myths that surround these two signs so read carefully if you want to understand the real truth about relationships between Gemini and Scorpio signs.
Gemini and Scorpio Zodiac Compatibility
What do you get when you try and match someone who can change personalities on you at a drop of a hat? What do you get when you pair somebody with a person who cannot forgive and holds grudges, sometimes until death?
It’s easy to think that such a pairing will end up in disaster. If you think this way with pairing with a Gemini or Scorpio, you would basically be buying to conventional wisdom.
The reality is that the Gemini and Scorpio match can actually be one of the most fulfilling and emotionally satisfying matches for love in all of astrology.
Why? Intensity, passion, similar interest, but opposite predispositions.
When you combine all these, it doesn’t necessarily have to lead to heartbreak, fights and disagreements. I explain this in detail in my special report on Zodiac sign compatibility.
It can actually mean living a life that others would be envious of especially when it comes to romantic relationships. Welcome to Gemini and Scorpio compatibility matches!
Gemini Scorpio Friendship Compatibility
In terms of general friendship compatibility, Gemini and Scorpio can get along quite well. Gemini is very open minded. Gemini loves to live for the day. Gemini is very spontaneous.
Nothing kills the Gemini’s spirit worse than boredom and routine.
Scorpio on the other hand, is all about intensity and passion. Scorpio is somebody who likes to give whatever he or she is doing one hundred percent. If you are a Gemini and you need a loyal friend, there is no better selection for Gemini than a Scorpio.
Scorpio will stick with a Gemini through thick and thin. Scorpio will defend you until death. Scorpio will be there for you. In fact, Scorpio would even sacrifice him or herself for your friendship. This is how intense a Scorpio is.
The problem is when Gemini starts acting like a typical Gemini and shows different aspects of himself or herself, this might be viewed as a betrayal and this can really put a strain on Gemini Scorpio friendship compatibility.
The last thing you want to do in the world is to get on the Scorpio’s bad side. Bad idea.
Scorpio doesn’t know how to forgive on a truly meaningful level. They can say ‘I forgive you’, but at the end of the day, they would still hold the grudge against you. The key to a successful match between the Gemini zodiac sign and Scorpio sign is for both sides to really communicate.
I am talking about really knowing each other on a deep level in a similar way to the match between a Gemini woman and Capricorn man.
Scorpio has to know all sides of the Gemini. This doesn’t have to be a deep understanding.
This only needs to be an acknowledgment that the Gemini has different aspects to his or her personality.
Once the Scorpio does this, then there is less chance of the Scorpio feeling betrayed, isolated or left out when the other aspects of the Gemini personality comes out.
Scorpio Traits and Gemini Compatibility
If this isn’t clear yet, it should be clear now. Scorpio can get quite vindictive. Most typical Scorpios have a tough time forgiving. This makes a lot of sense. Why? Scorpio is a very intense person.
If the Scorpio loves you, it’s an undying love. If Scorpio hates you on the other hand, watch your back. That’s how intense a Scorpio really is.
As mentioned earlier, to insure maximum compatibility, Gemini has to put all her cards on the table. Gemini has to say to the Scorpio and show the Scorpio these are all aspects of my personality.
Don’t be surprised when something happens and it seems like you’re talking to a completely different person. I am still the same person. I just have different aspects to my personality.
You might think I am very open minded and fun and spontaneous now, but don’t be surprise when I become quite boring, fearful or even paranoid later on’. Scorpio on the other hand, can learn quite a bit from the Gemini’s open mindedness and love for life.
Scorpio can learn how to move on and let go of past offenses. The problem with Scorpio is that they often think that the world revolves around the bad things that happen to them. No. life is more complicated than that.
Life has more to offer than that. The big promise with the Gemini and Scorpio matches and compatibility is that the Gemini can teach the Scorpio to love life instead of defining life as a series of narrow minded passions that lead to vindictiveness.
Misunderstanding Gemini Traits
One major problem that will affect Gemini and Scorpio compatibility is that Gemini signs can be quite flaky, let’s put that on the table. You might think that you know this Gemini person, then all of a sudden they fail to show up or they fail to show support.
The reality is that’s how Gemini signs are – they can get quite “flaky”. They can get quite irresponsible, but you have to love them regardless.
Why? That’s part of who they are. Once you fully know a Gemini and then being unreliable is not a big deal.
Why? Because their energy levels fluctuate. Gemini’s go through fear and love cycles. If Scorpio takes the time to fully understand the Gemini, Gemini becomes an asset instead of a liability and the chances for greater compatibility between Scorpio and Gemini signs will improve dramatically.
There is one word that summarizes the compatibility of a Gemini woman and Scorpio man, and that word is sex. That’s right. Scorpio guys loves sex. They love intense passion and sex.
Scorpio men however, need to keep things in check. Don’t get too envious. Don’t get too jealous and possessive. Gemini women say certain things and sometimes Scorpio men can take these the wrong way. This can lead to a lot of frustration and resentment in Gemini female and Scorpio male relationships.
The key thing to remember in such a relationship is that the Gemini woman is very open minded. Just because she says something, doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to do it or she is betraying you emotionally. If you are a Scorpio man then you have to think things through and take them in your stride.
The great thing that a Scorpio man offers a Gemini woman is that he never gets boring in bed. In terms of emotional compatibility, there’s a lot to work with here because there’s a lot of emotional intensity, a lot of passion.
If you like feeling love, if you like feeling appreciated, then as a Gemini woman there is nothing better than having a Scorpio man in your life.
However, you have to do your end of the bargain as well. Otherwise that same Scorpio man might hold it against you. Don’t say I didn’t warn you about this Gemini!
A Note on Gemini Scorpio Sexual Compatibility
If there is any issue with sexual compatibility with these signs, its this: Don’t view sex as substitute for emotional intensity.
Gemini can fall into this trap – especially those born on the Gemini Taurus Cusp. Their emotional needs fluctuate and they might thing that sex is a substitute for that. Scorpios on the other hand, can walk away from this situation feeling that the Gemini is holding back or is not sincere.
The reality is that things don’t have to be complicated. The reality is that Gemini and Scorpio just have to enjoy every moment together as it happens. You don’t need to read too many things into situations. You don’t need to over complicate your emotional relationship and if you do I suspect that it will actually harm the chances for long term compatibility between Gemini and Scorpio.
Gemini and Scorpio Marriage Compatibility
When it comes to marriage compatibility Gemini and Scorpio will face a number of challenges. As mentioned above, Gemini and Scorpio if fully developed can have a very meaningful marriage.
In fact, this could be one of the happiest marriage combinations in the entire horoscope. It all depends on emotional maturity.
However, if you pair up an emotionally immature Gemini with an undeveloped Scorpio, it can lead to lots of turbulence. It can lead to a lot of miscommunication, mixed signals and at the end, heartbreak.
It’s a good idea for Gemini to really lean on their natural ability to make a quick decision and to let the relationship mature until they decide to get married.
Scorpio on the other hand, should not be in a rush to get married. Sure, you are emotionally passionate. Sure, you are really in the zone emotionally with your Gemini partner. However, you might want to stay on the fence for a little bit longer.
Why? If you pull the trigger on the wrong person, you’re stuck with that person for life. While it’s true that it’s very easy to get a divorce in America, bad marriages can scar you emotionally. So you might want to hold off, make sure that you are ready and make sure that your partner is ready to ensure long term Gemini and Scorpio marriage compatibility this year and beyond.
My Final Thoughts on Gemini and Scorpio Compatibility
At this point you should realize that far from being a match made in hell the pairing between a Gemini and Scorpio can actually be extremely positive. It can be highly fulfilling and satisfying on many different levels.
However, if there is one thing that a Gemini and Scorpio needs to focus on, it is this: They need to completely communicate with each other. Communication is the key to fully knowing each other. Knowing each other well enough that you don’t step on each other’s toes.
If you don’t fully communicate with each other and you just go with your feelings, there’s a chance that you might get the wrong end of the Scorpio personality. You might end up with somebody that comes off as vindictive and prone to emotional blackmail.
On the other hand, if you’re a Scorpio and you don’t communicate clearly and you see your Gemini partner’s different sides, you might feel betrayed because you might end up living with somebody who seems like a complete stranger. Gemini tends to do that, but it’s not their fault.
If I can give you one piece of advice it is this – communication and open discussion is absolutely key to successfully Gemini Scorpio compatibility.