Aries and Gemini – The Complete Guide to CompatibilityBy |
Aries Gemini compatibility can be a really interesting mix when it comes to romance and relationships.
However in my experience of analysing these two signs it is clear that there is a lot of confusion surrounding the Aries Gemini match.
In this special compatibility analysis I will set the record straight once and for all on the when people ask are Aries and Gemini compatible.
Let me be clear.
There are lots of positive aspects of a match between Gemini and Aries and in my experience it all depends on which aspects of each horoscope sign’s personality is emphasized which will decide on whether this match works or does not.
Unlike the match between Gemini and Libra, Aries and Gemini are much more alike and often share many common traits and characteristics that help improve their chances of compatibility.
The interesting thing about the horoscope is that while it tends to give us certain predispositions and biases, our personalities’ specific shape is of course the product of our own life experiences.
Gemini and Aries are no different.
They have many different areas they can specialize in and put emphasis on.
If you have the right pairing despite many other factors, these two can get along quite well in a romantic relationship.
Sometimes the match between Gemini and Aries is so strong we are talking about a marriage made in heaven, a truly rewarding friendship and great co-workers.
However, just like with the other signs, if the least developed sides are put together, we can have a lot of strife, betrayal and craziness in a Gemini Aries relationship.
Keep this in mind because this year will not be different from previous years.
What is different is the specific emphasis on different aspects of the Gemini and Aries personalities.
These differences are due to the fact that it will be a challenging year on many different levels.
With that said, the same basic patterns will come into play for Gemini and Aries when it comes to overall compatibility in love and beyond.
Aries and Gemini Matches
There are different matches for Gemini and Aries in all aspects of life.
There are many aspects to Gemini and Aries personalities.
When it comes to work setting, Gemini and Aries can have a rough time because this year will have a lot of stress especially in the later end of the year.
This stress can really trickle down through all levels of an organization.
It can trigger Gemini to become extra unreliable.
They operate based on certain triggers. With the right combination of triggers, Gemini shows a different face.
You might think that you have known one for so long but after certain triggers happen, you are looking at completely different person.
That’s how radical a Gemini personality change can be. Don’t let it fool you though.
That personality has always been there but has been suppressed.
Combine this with the Aries negative personality trait of getting angry. He or she can get really angry from time to time.
It is their defence mechanism when they don’t feel like being in control.
They go to this high emotional state where their rage is a reflection of the fact that they’ve lost control.
If you put these two together, it can get quite hairy.
It’s a good idea to make sure that there is a lot of space and those other personalities are in the middle to defend against the worst parts of an explosive relationship between the Aries and Gemini.
Problems with Aries Man and Gemini Woman Compatibility
As mentioned above, the Aries ego can be a problem for a harmonious match with the Gemini sign. They like to think that they are always right, brag and always take credit.
This is particularly true when it comes to a match between an Aries man and Gemini woman.
Gemini can get along. He can be easy-go-lucky. However, if the Aries man acts like he “owns” the Gemini woman, prepare for fireworks.
As we all know, if there is one thing that a Gemini woman detests it is being controlled. Especially when it is coming from an Aries male!
This should not be a surprise.
This trait has always been present in the Gemini woman.
However, the Aries man was just so egotistic and self-centred that he didn’t see it.
This can cause a lot of problems.
This can cause a lot of bad feelings and because of this it’s not uncommon for the Aries man to feel betrayed by the Gemini Woman
This usually happens when the Aries continues being so self-absorbed and egotistical that the Gemini is just holding all of it in.
Suddenly, they find themselves in a crisis situation when the Aries is vulnerable and weak.
He just relies on his Gemini and they either just let him have it work to stab him in the back.
The reality is that there is no backstabbing.
The Aries man should have seen that the Gemini is turning.
Gemini women are known to be fickle.
Trying to rely on them for certain things is like trying to use a piece of clay as the foundation of your home.
This is not a good idea.
You have to love Gemini women for what they are.
Aries, on the other hand, can have a tough time accepting all of this because it is hard for them to accept being wrong.
They can’t admit to themselves that they didn’t see that coming from their Gemini woman because they were too busy being focused on themselves.
Hence, you will see that, if pressure is present that can allow all of these personality trends to surface then it can get can become an explosive situation for Gemini woman and Aries man compatibility.
Aries Gemini Emotional Compatibility
When it comes to the match between the Aries woman and Gemini man it is completely different.
In this situation the strength of the Aries woman is actually a major plus for this relationship.
It is widely accepted that since Gemini men prefer to be led rather than be a leader themselves this creates a highly compatible situation when matched with the Aries woman.
Gemini men and Aries women love matches are one of the best love matches across all the signs of the Zodiac for this very reason.
One word of caution though.
Whilst Gemini men do like to be led they do have limits.
Sometimes an Aries woman will push her Gemini man too far and then he will explode into a furious state.
Take my advice in this situation and make sure that if you are an Aries woman you take care not to push your Gemini man too far.
Aries Gemini Marriage Compatibility
The great thing about marriage is that people usually only start thinking about it after being a while in a relationship.
Moreover, people usually think about marriage when they have reached a certain level of maturity.
These are two great assumptions to have. If these assumptions are present, the Gemini and Aries marriage compatibility will be great.
This should not be surprising at all.
This should even be expected because developed people tend to have stable and mutually-fulfilling relationships.
I explain this further in my detailed report on Gemini’s marriage compatibility.
Unfortunately however we’re dealing with human beings who tend to be imperfect.
If you have an undeveloped Gemini and an immature Aries, the marriage compatibility can become rocky.
Sure, they can enter into a marriage but the problem is staying married.
A Gemini can get quite erratic and fickle while an Aries can get quite angry and be an attention-seeker.
This can be a very emotionally-trying marriage if both partners take the negative sides of their personalities to extremes.
It is worth noting that this is also the main reason that Gemini and Taurus marriage usually ends in disaster.
The good news is that in a marriage between Aries and Gemini, the Gemini partner tends to be emotionally-perceptive.
They can see when Aries is going one of his or her egotistic rampages.
Aries, on the other hand, is very protective.
They begin look at Gemini as being emotionally-weak and vulnerable and would really sacrifice himself for the good of his partner.
That’s the irony of the Aries. He’s so egotistical and protective that it actually becomes selfless.
Talk about a “saving grace”
For the best marriage compatibility, the Aries and Gemini need to be honest with each other and themselves to find out if they have reached that level of maturity where their partnership can thrive going forward.
The video below describes this point very well.
Sexual Compatibility between Gemini and Aries
Gemini can be very sexually curious.
In fact, it is not uncommon for Gemini women to be bisexual.
They might not want to have sex with another woman but some of them wouldn’t fight off another woman who makes a move on them.
That is how some of them are. To an Aries guy, this might not be a problem. It might actually be a great thing when it comes to Gemini and Aries sexually.
Aries are all about ego, so when it comes to Aries and Gemini in bed, nothing strokes the ego of an Aries man more than two women in his bed.
The problem is that if the Aries guy takes it to the extreme, the Gemini partner can turn.
The Gemini woman can seem like a very liberal, passionate and open-minded person that she wouldn’t mind you being close to a friend.
However, Aries should know the line.
Otherwise, he will find himself in the doghouse. The relationship blows up and you will be heartbroken with your Gemini woman leaving you.
With the Gemini man, the sexual compatibility with an Aries woman is different.
It’s hard for them to stay loyal.
Aries women have to really work on their ego because this can be a serious problem.
By loyalty, we are not just talking about to the physical.
Gemini men can be loyal but their mind can be unfaithful.
You really need to understand this factor if you want to succeed and attract the Gemini man into your life.
Just remember however – emotional infidelity is as bad as physical and it can be a major problem in relationships between Gemini men and Aries women.
This is why it is very important to know each other fully.
It would help to know each other’s predispositions.
By drawing the boundaries of your sexual relationship quite broadly, you can map it out so that you will not be surprised when triggers set off your Gemini partner.
It is also a good idea for the Aries to be a little bit more compassionate and self-sacrificing if compatibility between Gemini and Aries is to really stand a chance of succeeding.
My Final Thoughts on Aries and Gemini Matches
To be honest, I almost deleted half of this special report.
Somehow it just feels a little too negative for my liking.
However I always believe in telling the unvarnished truth because I know my loyal readers expect nothing less.
Just please do not misinterpret this report.
If Aries and Gemini do get together in a relationship then it can be a hugely rewarding and happy experience for both the Aries and Gemini.
The point I am trying to make in this report is that it is essential for both signs to be fully aware of the other person’s strengths and weaknesses.
If they are not that is when real trouble can emerge for both signs.
I am going to finish up with my top 5 tips for maximum Aries and Gemini love compatibility.
- When it comes to Aries and Gemini Love – less is always more. No when to stop talking for the good of your relationship.
- Gemini women and Aries men can both be highly stubborn – learn when it is better to make a compromise rather than continue fighting.
- Aries and Gemini Friendship always works best when there are common interests shared between both people. Think about what hobbies you might have in common.
- Remember to lighten up and have fun at least once a day.
- Don’t let anyone tell you that Gemini and Aries love compatibility is impossible – trust your heart and let it lead you to happiness.